Girl!

Protective style season is HERE! And I’m loving itttt. In today’s video I’m sharing with you my easy, affordable deep wave headband wig that I’ve been using to protect my relaxed hair as the colder weather approaches. 

Hey girlie, 

Hey sis!

Fall is officially here and I’ve been all about keeping things simple and minimal! I love a simple natural “no makeup” makeup look along with protective styling for the colder weather - nothing wrong with giving your relaxed hair a break! Perfect everyday hair and makeup for the office, mom’s on the go, running errands etc. Merit Beauty has definitely been my go-to lately. Less is more, girl!

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Hey girl hey!

We’re back with the monthly Q&A that takes place over on my Instagram Stories. I love our question and answer sessions because it allows me to connect with my awesome community, it gives me a chance to get to know your hair care needs and you get to know a little more about me! It’s a win/win.

Let's get into this Q&A!

DO YOU MOISTURIZE YOUR HAIR EVERY DAY?

Not any more. I used to moisturize my hair twice a day (morning and night) when I first started my hair journey. It was literally the best thing ever. I noticed a huge improvement in the moisture levels in my hair and I quickly started to retain length. My hair is naturally very coarse and dry (4b/c) so it craves moisture. If you are just starting out on your relaxed hair journey, I highly recommend that you moisturize daily. You can always decrease the frequency if you notice your hair is doing a good job at retaining the moisture. Now, I moisturize daily or every other day.

HAVE YOU TRIED ANY OF THE MIZANI PRODUCT LINE? WHICH ONE AND WHAT WAS YOUR EXPERIENCE?

CAN YOU RECOMMEND A LEAVE-IN CONDITIONER OR LOTION TO REPAIR BREAKAGE?

I wouldn't say there's a "specific" leave-in conditioner that will help repair breakage. First, you have to identify the possible cause for breakage i.e. moisture deficiency/protein deficiency,  build up, etc. 

Once the specific deficiency is identified, you can then proceed with the correct product to help minimize the breakage. For moisture, a great leave-in would be TGIN Green Tea Leave-in Conditioner, TGIN Rose Water Smoothing Leave-in Conditioner, or As I Am Classic Leave-in. For protein, Aphogee Green Tea and Keratin Restructurizer or Shea Moisture JBCO Leave-in.

ANY ADVICE FOR SOMEONE NEWLY RELAXED?

Congratulations on starting your Relaxed Hair Journey!!

My advice would be to do as much research as possible (Google, Youtube and Instagram will be your best friends) on healthy hair care practices that you can start implementing into your regimen. Many rely on others to do their homework for them, but doing the research yourself while asking questions will give you the education and knowledge you need for a successful hair journey. By all means, nerd out a bit! :)

Relaxed Hair Topics To Search:

Moisture/Protein Balance

Product Ingredients 

Prepoo Treatments

Shampooing Techniques

Deep Conditioning 

Moisturizing and Sealing

Relaxer Stretching Practices

Low Manipulation/Protective Styles

Air Drying

Relaxer Day Tips

Hair Tools

Scalp Massages

To help jump start your journey, I would recommend that you get a professional trim. Starting off your journey with full healthy ends will put your hair in a better position to retain length and fullness. Assess your hair often to ensure that what you're using is in fact helping your hair and not hurting your hair. Assessing your hair via the help of pictures or a journal, will help you determine what works and omit what doesn't.

There will be a lot of trial and error along the way but always listen to your hair and tweak your regimen as you see fit. Patience is necessary. Smash those hair goals, sis!

HOW DO YOU HELP STOP BREAKAGE IN ORDER TO RETAIN LENGTH?

The best way to stop breakage is to first identify why you're experiencing breakage in the first place. There could be various reasons as to why you're experiencing breakage i.e. mechanical damage, chemical damage, moisture/protein imbalance, build up etc. Take the time to sit down,  assess your hair and try to determine the possible cause(s) so you can implement the correct steps to retain length. For example:

If Mechanical Damage: assess the way you manipulate your hair i.e. Tight buns, ponytails, excessive blow drying, flat irons, too many protective styles etc.

If Chemical Damage: assess if your hair has been over-processed i.e. overly thin, limp, leaving the relaxer on too long, colour-treated hair, etc. 

If Moisture/Protein Imbalance: assess if your hair has a deficiency in moisture i.e. stiff, dry, rough brittle or assess if your hair has a deficiency in protein i.e. overly limp, mushy, stretching, can't hold a curl etc.

If Build Up: assess if your hair won't absorb products i.e. feels waxy, coated, constantly dry, dull etc. Using a clarifying shampoo will help lift the product build up.

WHAT ARE SOME DEEP CONDITIONERS YOU RECOMMEND?

There's several amazing moisturizing deep conditioners on the market right now. From my observation, here are several deep conditioners that people enjoy using on their hair (just to name a few):

Keracare Humecto Creme Conditioner

Mielle Mongongo Oil Hydrating Conditioner

TGIN Honey Miracle Mask

Aussie 3 Minutes Miracle 

Shea Moisture 10 in 1 Conditioner

TGIN Miracle RepairX Deep Hydrating Hair Mask (small amount of protein)

Shea Moisture Manuka Honey and Mafura Oil Hair Mask (small amount of protein)

WHAT IS YOUR PLAN WHEN YOU START GRAYING?

I don’t put too much thought in this area; however, I think that I’ll start dying my hair if they grays get out of control. I also heard taking Black Strap Molasses as a daily supplement helps to prevent grays - so that’s definitely something worth looking into!  :)

BEEN SEEING PEOPLE USE HYALURONIC ACID IN THEIR HAIR LATELY. HAVE YOU TRIED IT? WOULD YOU TRY IT?

I guess this is the "new" method for increasing hydration levels in the hair. I've seen this ingredient in several hair care products lately. I personally haven’t tried it. I may take a look and see what the hype is about.

WHAT CO-WASH CAN I USE?

Any moisturizing 'cheapie' conditioner that works for your hair. There’s tons out there:

Aussie Moist

Tresemme Moisture Rich Conditioner

Herbal Essences Hello Hydration

V05 Conditioners

Suave Conditioners

As I Am Coconut Cowash

WHATS THE BEST WAY TO COMBAT POSTPARTUM HAIR LOSS? MY EDGES ARE ALL GONE.

Unfortunately, there's no 'one specific method/step/product' to help prevent postpartum shedding. It's a natural hormonal process that takes place several months, to a year, after giving birth or after breastfeeding. I personally went through it with my kids and it wasn't easy so I understand where you are coming from. Here are some of the best methods that helped me:

Incorporating Jamaican Black Castor Oil into my regimen as it helps to promote growth and thickness in the hair i.e. in my deep conditioner, prepoo, scalp massages etc.

Daily scalp massages to help stimulate growth - focusing on the areas that need it the most i.e. hairline, edges.

Adding essentials oils like Rosemary oil into deep conditioners or scalp massages (along with a carrier oil) to stimulate hair growth and decrease shedding.

Remained consistent with my post-natal vitamins. Taking them daily was a must. 

Increased my water intake (plus I was breastfeeding - another must)

Maintained my regular wash day routine as much as possible (it's a nice self-care moment for mommy)

Tried my best to remain patient and gave myself grace! 

It's a natural part of child birth and it will get back to normal again, sis. Hang in there!

HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH UNDER-PROCESSED HAIR?

My best advise would be to keep your hair (specifically the under-processed areas) moisturized as often and as much as possible.The various differences in texture requires a certain level of care to prevent unnecessary breakage and damage. 

Intensifying your deep conditioning treatments by adding oils and/or glycerin can help, doing the LOC/LCO method will help to lock in moisture preventing dryness. Keeping your hair up and away is key, so maintaining low manipulation/protective styles would be ideal in dealing with under-processed hair until you're ready to do a corrective relaxer.

DO YOU THINK THE CREME OF NATURE PLEX PRETREATMENT IS A GOOD SUBSTITUTE FOR OLAPLEX NO.3?

I don't think they should replace each other. Olaplex No.3 includes a patented technology to reinforce the broken bonds in the hair. CON Bond Mender acts like a mini protein treatment due to its light protein ingredient: Hydrolyzed Wheat Protein.  Olaplex No.3 is not a protein conditioner. It’s a bond re-builder. As a result, they are different yet they work amazingly well together - my relaxer day staples.

HOW DO YOU KEEP YOUR HAIR STRAIGHT BETWEEN RELAXERS IF YOU ONLY FLAT IRON EVERY 10-12 WEEKS?

Be sure to check out How I Air Dry My Relaxed Hair

WHAT ARE THE BEST TIPS FOR RETAINING LENGTH?

Keep your hair clean

Find the right moisture/protein balance for your hair

Utilize low manipulation/protective styles often

Keep your ends trimmed to protect against split ends

Minimize frequent direct heat 

Detangle carefully from the ends up

Keep your hair and ends covered at night using a satin/silk scarf or bonnet

Remain consistent in your hair regimen and you'll begin to see results :)

MY HAIR KEEPS SHEDDING, I DEEP TREAT, PROTEIN TREAT ETC. BUT IT STILL SHEDS SHOULD I JUST CUT IT ALL?

Shedding is very intricate but I wouldn't advise to cut it just yet. Shedding is a part of our natural hair growth cycle. Our hair grows, it rests, then it sheds. Typically on average, you can shed anywhere from 50-100 strands per day. This is normal. However, any shed hairs in excess of 50-100/day can be a cause for alarm. 

To help decrease shedding, I like do biweekly/monthly black tea rinses. It's been helpful. Adding rosemary essential oils in a carrier oil of your choice i.e. coconut oil, olive oil, avocado oil etc. while doing scalp massages can increase blood circulation, stimulate hair growth and reduce shedding.

Excessive shedding can be an indicator of many things i.e. incorrect usage of products, hormonal imbalance, rapid weight loss, diet, iron deficiency, medications, stress etc. 

If you feel that your shed strands are more than the average 50-100/day, I would suggest consulting with your family physician to get blood work done to ensure it’s not something serious.  

YOU ARE A MOMMY,  SELF CARE TIPS PLEASE?

Being a mom is such a joy, but the selfless act of it all can really make you neglect yourself at times. So for me, being intentional is important. 

I intentionally take time out for solo dates to the mall, getting my nails done at home, soaking in the tub (need to increase those), face mask Monday’s, taking a walk or bike ride and just overall quite time whether in prayer, the Bible or reading my favourite book. Mental, physical and spiritual maintenance is important so we can pour back into our families; just as much as we give. Self care isn’t selfish. Us moms need it!

PLEASE ADVISE ON HOW TO DEAL WITH FRIZZY HAIR? (HIGH POROSITY)

High porosity hair has open cuticles along the hair shaft. These open cuticles make it difficult for moisture to remain in the hair. 

Hey girl hey!

I'm back with another relaxer update! I know, it's been a while but here we are so...let's get to it!

HA I R   S T A T S:

Relaxer: ORS Olive Oil Lye Relaxer Normal Strength

Relaxer Stretch Ended: 13 Weeks Post Relaxer

Trim: Cut ends to Maintain APL/BSL Length - still in love!

Relaxer Results: Slightly under processed in the middle and nape area

Relaxer day went fine, nothing out of the ordinary to report really - I did my same routine that you see here on my blog & YouTube.  However, by the 2-3 week, I noticed waves at my roots in various sections in my hair. This was a bit alarming as nothing changed in my relaxer application routine (we smoothed, combed through the roots etc.) yet there's still lots of texture at my roots. Don't get me wrong, I'm all about leaving SOME texture behind in the hair for extra strength and elasticity - plus it gives the hair a fuller appearance - but this is definitely more than I typically experience.

It's hard to tell from the photo above that I have several under processed areas - my hair was flat ironed - but my roots are very wavy in an air dried state. It feels like I ended my relaxer stretch just to start another one *sigh*.

So my plan moving forward is to NOT do a corrective relaxer now, or in the next 6 weeks, but to just wait it out for a little and relax no later than 10 weeks post relaxer. I would rather wait and do my touch up earlier (as opposed to 12/13 weeks) while correcting the under processed areas. 

In the meantime, I'm keeping my roots extra moisturized to prevent any unnecessary breakage between the various textures, sticking to my usual wash day regimen and I'll most likely maximize my fave low manipulation styles i.e. braid outs to help blend the textures together.

F A L L ' I N G   B A C K   I N T O   P R O T E C T I V E   S T Y L E S

Now that Fall is here and my roots are slightly under-processed, I've been thinking of implementing some protective styles just to help keep my hands out of my hair. The way I see it, the less manipulation the better right now. Also, in my "10 Things I Don't Do To My Relaxed Hair" YouTube video, I expressed that I'm leaning towards experimenting with headband wigs. I know, I'm late to the whole "headband wig scene" - but I'm curious to see if it's something that I will enjoy as I used to wear wigs throughout my hair journey with no issues.

Straight Headband Wig

In my mind, this style would be reserved for times when I just don't feel like styling my hair, towards the end of my relaxer stretch or when I need to run out of the house in a hurry for whatever reason (typical mom-of-two-type-behaviour right?! lol). Honestly, I haven't worn a wig in yearsssss! I think 2010 was the last time I wore one. I love wigs for the versatility and the ease in which I can remove it nightly to tend to my hair and stick to my hair routine. I'm a little nervous to jump back in the wig game..just baby steps... so headband wigs it is!!

Stay tuned for that...

V I T A M I N   U P D A T E

I will admit, being consistent with my vitamins was a chore over the Summer. Being out and about with the family, out of town, camping, doing activities and just enjoying ourselves kinda threw my vitamin routine off. Now that it's September and we're back into a routine, I find myself getting right back on track. 

In addition to that, I've now included iron in my vitamin regimen to increase my ferritin levels (found out during my yearly check up). I wasn't diagnosed with Anemia (never been either) nor did I have the symptoms of someone who is anemic but an iron treatment was suggested by my doctor to boost my ferritin back to where it used to be (I think this played a role in the shedding that I was complaining about). Part of me wishes I caught this sooner, but I'm glad that I'm taking measures to improve my health.

With that being said, let this be a lesson and reminder to you, get your blood work done, sis! It's so easy to place emphasis on the external but our internal health is equally important, if not more! Other than that, I'm still taking my usuals: Multi's, Vitamin D, Biotin, Omega 3's and Vitamin C.

H A I R   P L A N S

I've been really enjoying and maintaining my new length - just above BSL. I love the ease in taking care of my hair at this length. I don't know what it is, but this length is just really attractive to me. It catches my eye every time I see ladies with this length either on Instagram or Pinterest. I guess since I've had long hair for a very longggg time, it's just something new and different for me - bare with me during my little phase y'all lol. 

I remember mentioning in my previous relaxer update, on my Youtube Channel, that my plan was to maintain this length for the Summer and possibly grow it out toward the end of the year. For now, I think I'm going to stick to this length maybe until the end of the year and then go back to my usual "happy place" - mid back length or longer...*wink*

That's it, sis!

Xoxo