Hey girl hey!

We’re back with the monthly Q&A that takes place over on my Instagram Stories. I love our question and answer sessions because it allows me to connect with my awesome community, it gives me a chance to get to know your hair care needs and you get to know a little more about me! It’s a win/win.

Let's get into this Q&A!

DO YOU MOISTURIZE YOUR HAIR EVERY DAY?

Not any more. I used to moisturize my hair twice a day (morning and night) when I first started my hair journey. It was literally the best thing ever. I noticed a huge improvement in the moisture levels in my hair and I quickly started to retain length. My hair is naturally very coarse and dry (4b/c) so it craves moisture. If you are just starting out on your relaxed hair journey, I highly recommend that you moisturize daily. You can always decrease the frequency if you notice your hair is doing a good job at retaining the moisture. Now, I moisturize daily or every other day.

HAVE YOU TRIED ANY OF THE MIZANI PRODUCT LINE? WHICH ONE AND WHAT WAS YOUR EXPERIENCE?

I tried the Mizani Moisture Fuse Moisturizing Conditioner years back. It was okay - nothing to write home about. I was very underwhelming as many used and loved it back then. My hair felt smooth, but the moisture was lacking - if that makes sense. I also tried the Mizani Butter Blends Relaxer back in 2008. The results were amazing; however, I was a little under-processed after using it, so I discontinued.

CAN YOU RECOMMEND A LEAVE-IN CONDITIONER OR LOTION TO REPAIR BREAKAGE?

I wouldn't say there's a "specific" leave-in conditioner that will help repair breakage. First, you have to identify the possible cause for breakage i.e. moisture deficiency/protein deficiency,  build up, etc. 

Once the specific deficiency is identified, you can then proceed with the correct product to help minimize the breakage. For moisture, a great leave-in would be TGIN Green Tea Leave-in Conditioner, TGIN Rose Water Smoothing Leave-in Conditioner, or As I Am Classic Leave-in. For protein, Aphogee Green Tea and Keratin Restructurizer or Shea Moisture JBCO Leave-in.

ANY ADVICE FOR SOMEONE NEWLY RELAXED?

Congratulations on starting your Relaxed Hair Journey!!

My advice would be to do as much research as possible (Google, Youtube and Instagram will be your best friends) on healthy hair care practices that you can start implementing into your regimen. Many rely on others to do their homework for them, but doing the research yourself while asking questions will give you the education and knowledge you need for a successful hair journey. By all means, nerd out a bit! :)

Relaxed Hair Topics To Search:

Moisture/Protein Balance

Product Ingredients 

Prepoo Treatments

Shampooing Techniques

Deep Conditioning 

Moisturizing and Sealing

Relaxer Stretching Practices

Low Manipulation/Protective Styles

Air Drying

Relaxer Day Tips

Hair Tools

Scalp Massages

To help jump start your journey, I would recommend that you get a professional trim. Starting off your journey with full healthy ends will put your hair in a better position to retain length and fullness. Assess your hair often to ensure that what you're using is in fact helping your hair and not hurting your hair. Assessing your hair via the help of pictures or a journal, will help you determine what works and omit what doesn't.

There will be a lot of trial and error along the way but always listen to your hair and tweak your regimen as you see fit. Patience is necessary. Smash those hair goals, sis!

HOW DO YOU HELP STOP BREAKAGE IN ORDER TO RETAIN LENGTH?

The best way to stop breakage is to first identify why you're experiencing breakage in the first place. There could be various reasons as to why you're experiencing breakage i.e. mechanical damage, chemical damage, moisture/protein imbalance, build up etc. Take the time to sit down,  assess your hair and try to determine the possible cause(s) so you can implement the correct steps to retain length. For example:

If Mechanical Damage: assess the way you manipulate your hair i.e. Tight buns, ponytails, excessive blow drying, flat irons, too many protective styles etc.

If Chemical Damage: assess if your hair has been over-processed i.e. overly thin, limp, leaving the relaxer on too long, colour-treated hair, etc. 

If Moisture/Protein Imbalance: assess if your hair has a deficiency in moisture i.e. stiff, dry, rough brittle or assess if your hair has a deficiency in protein i.e. overly limp, mushy, stretching, can't hold a curl etc.

If Build Up: assess if your hair won't absorb products i.e. feels waxy, coated, constantly dry, dull etc. Using a clarifying shampoo will help lift the product build up.

WHAT ARE SOME DEEP CONDITIONERS YOU RECOMMEND?

There's several amazing moisturizing deep conditioners on the market right now. From my observation, here are several deep conditioners that people enjoy using on their hair (just to name a few):

Keracare Humecto Creme Conditioner

Mielle Mongongo Oil Hydrating Conditioner

TGIN Honey Miracle Mask

Aussie 3 Minutes Miracle 

Shea Moisture 10 in 1 Conditioner

TGIN Miracle RepairX Deep Hydrating Hair Mask (small amount of protein)

Shea Moisture Manuka Honey and Mafura Oil Hair Mask (small amount of protein)

WHAT IS YOUR PLAN WHEN YOU START GRAYING?

I don’t put too much thought in this area; however, I think that I’ll start dying my hair if they grays get out of control. I also heard taking Black Strap Molasses as a daily supplement helps to prevent grays - so that’s definitely something worth looking into!  :)

BEEN SEEING PEOPLE USE HYALURONIC ACID IN THEIR HAIR LATELY. HAVE YOU TRIED IT? WOULD YOU TRY IT?

I guess this is the "new" method for increasing hydration levels in the hair. I've seen this ingredient in several hair care products lately. I personally haven’t tried it. I may take a look and see what the hype is about.

WHAT CO-WASH CAN I USE?

Any moisturizing 'cheapie' conditioner that works for your hair. There’s tons out there:

Aussie Moist

Tresemme Moisture Rich Conditioner

Herbal Essences Hello Hydration

V05 Conditioners

Suave Conditioners

As I Am Coconut Cowash

WHATS THE BEST WAY TO COMBAT POSTPARTUM HAIR LOSS? MY EDGES ARE ALL GONE.

Unfortunately, there's no 'one specific method/step/product' to help prevent postpartum shedding. It's a natural hormonal process that takes place several months, to a year, after giving birth or after breastfeeding. I personally went through it with my kids and it wasn't easy so I understand where you are coming from. Here are some of the best methods that helped me:

Incorporating Jamaican Black Castor Oil into my regimen as it helps to promote growth and thickness in the hair i.e. in my deep conditioner, prepoo, scalp massages etc.

Daily scalp massages to help stimulate growth - focusing on the areas that need it the most i.e. hairline, edges.

Adding essentials oils like Rosemary oil into deep conditioners or scalp massages (along with a carrier oil) to stimulate hair growth and decrease shedding.

Remained consistent with my post-natal vitamins. Taking them daily was a must. 

Increased my water intake (plus I was breastfeeding - another must)

Maintained my regular wash day routine as much as possible (it's a nice self-care moment for mommy)

Tried my best to remain patient and gave myself grace! 

It's a natural part of child birth and it will get back to normal again, sis. Hang in there!

HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH UNDER-PROCESSED HAIR?

My best advise would be to keep your hair (specifically the under-processed areas) moisturized as often and as much as possible.The various differences in texture requires a certain level of care to prevent unnecessary breakage and damage. 

Intensifying your deep conditioning treatments by adding oils and/or glycerin can help, doing the LOC/LCO method will help to lock in moisture preventing dryness. Keeping your hair up and away is key, so maintaining low manipulation/protective styles would be ideal in dealing with under-processed hair until you're ready to do a corrective relaxer.

DO YOU THINK THE CREME OF NATURE PLEX PRETREATMENT IS A GOOD SUBSTITUTE FOR OLAPLEX NO.3?

I don't think they should replace each other. Olaplex No.3 includes a patented technology to reinforce the broken bonds in the hair. CON Bond Mender acts like a mini protein treatment due to its light protein ingredient: Hydrolyzed Wheat Protein.  Olaplex No.3 is not a protein conditioner. It’s a bond re-builder. As a result, they are different yet they work amazingly well together - my relaxer day staples.

HOW DO YOU KEEP YOUR HAIR STRAIGHT BETWEEN RELAXERS IF YOU ONLY FLAT IRON EVERY 10-12 WEEKS?

Be sure to check out How I Air Dry My Relaxed Hair

WHAT ARE THE BEST TIPS FOR RETAINING LENGTH?

Keep your hair clean

Find the right moisture/protein balance for your hair

Utilize low manipulation/protective styles often

Keep your ends trimmed to protect against split ends

Minimize frequent direct heat 

Detangle carefully from the ends up

Keep your hair and ends covered at night using a satin/silk scarf or bonnet

Remain consistent in your hair regimen and you'll begin to see results :)

MY HAIR KEEPS SHEDDING, I DEEP TREAT, PROTEIN TREAT ETC. BUT IT STILL SHEDS SHOULD I JUST CUT IT ALL?

Shedding is very intricate but I wouldn't advise to cut it just yet. Shedding is a part of our natural hair growth cycle. Our hair grows, it rests, then it sheds. Typically on average, you can shed anywhere from 50-100 strands per day. This is normal. However, any shed hairs in excess of 50-100/day can be a cause for alarm. 

To help decrease shedding, I like do biweekly/monthly black tea rinses. It's been helpful. Adding rosemary essential oils in a carrier oil of your choice i.e. coconut oil, olive oil, avocado oil etc. while doing scalp massages can increase blood circulation, stimulate hair growth and reduce shedding.

Excessive shedding can be an indicator of many things i.e. incorrect usage of products, hormonal imbalance, rapid weight loss, diet, iron deficiency, medications, stress etc. 

If you feel that your shed strands are more than the average 50-100/day, I would suggest consulting with your family physician to get blood work done to ensure it’s not something serious.  

YOU ARE A MOMMY,  SELF CARE TIPS PLEASE?

Being a mom is such a joy, but the selfless act of it all can really make you neglect yourself at times. So for me, being intentional is important. 

I intentionally take time out for solo dates to the mall, getting my nails done at home, soaking in the tub (need to increase those), face mask Monday’s, taking a walk or bike ride and just overall quite time whether in prayer, the Bible or reading my favourite book. Mental, physical and spiritual maintenance is important so we can pour back into our families; just as much as we give. Self care isn’t selfish. Us moms need it!

PLEASE ADVISE ON HOW TO DEAL WITH FRIZZY HAIR? (HIGH POROSITY)

Let me break it down even further...picture trying to keep heat in a house with the doors and windows wide open - it doesn't work! The doors and windows need to be closed in order to lock the heat in a cold house - get what I'm saying? So for high porosity hair, it's easy for moisture to escape the hair strands due to its open cuticles. 

Frizzy hair is the result of having open/raised cuticles. Your focus needs to be on finding products that are pH balanced, meaning products that are slightly on the acid side of the pH scale. 

Acidic products will allow the hair to feel smooth, soft, impart shine because the cuticles are laying flat.  This is why I love Avlon products because they are all pH balanced which is super important for high porosity relaxed hair. To help combat frizz, Prepoo your hair with coconut oil (coconut oil helps to rebuild the cuticle layer while making it lay smooth and flat), find a pH balanced sulfate free shampoo (Keracare Hydrating Shampoo, Maui Moisture Heal & Hydrate + Shea Butter Shampoo, Paul Mitchel Awapuhi Shampoo), deep condition and apply your leave-in conditioner (high end products tend to have balanced pH levels to help close the cuticle).  If you can’t find any leave-ins, try incorporating an Aloe Vera Juice Leave-in (water, aloe, glycerin + several drops of your favourite oil) and/or apple cider vinegar rinses (after you shampoo) into your regimen to help close the cuticle preventing frizz.

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF WILD GROWTH OIL HAVE YOU USED IT BEFORE?

It’s a great oil for promoting hair growth if used consistently. I own it and use it from time to time. 

HOW CAN I STOP MY HAIR FROM BREAKING? I DEEP CONDITION EVERY WEEK.

If you are noticing short broken hairs everywhere you need to ask yourself "what am I using? when was the last time I clarified?" "am I using enough moisture in my regimen?" "when was my last trim?" Asking yourself these types of questions will help you pin point the possible cause. 

Perform a strand test to really see what your hair needs. When you take a shed strand of hair and slightly tug on it, does your hair automatically break? does it feel ridged, rough and dry? If so, chances are you need more moisture in your regimen and the deep conditioner you're using isn't providing that. Or, when you tug on the shed strand and it continues to stretch, stretch and stretch before breaking in addition your hair feels mushy, limp, lifeless? chances are you need more strength in your regimen.

In the meantime, you can always clarify your hair using a clarifying shampoo and then deep condition with moisture to see if that helps. I always say...it's better to err on the side of caution using Moisture (protein free) based products when breakage arises. If you notice breakage minimizing, continue this wash day regimen (minus the clarifying portion) for 3 wash day cycles to rebalance your moisture levels.

It’s super important to read the ingredient labels on your products in order to determine if the products you’re using are protein or moisture based. Using them incorrectly can cause unnecessary breakage. Check out my video on knowing your ingredients:

HOW TO PROTECT THE HAIR DURING THE WINTER?

Winter is approaching and it's important to implement certain steps in order to protect your hair from drying out during the harsh winter weather. The way I see it, hair care during the winter is all about protection and prevention! For example:

1. Wearing silk/satin lined hats to prevent your hair from drying out.

2. Utilize protective styles (wigs, braids, weave, buns) to protect against the harsh weather and fabrics.

3. Apply oils rich in fats to your scalp to prevent dryness and flakes i.e. avocado oil, coconut oil, castor oil/JBCO, jojoba oil etc.

4. Use heavier oils and butters to seal in the moisture on your ends. 

5. Incorporate pre- shampoo treatments to enhance the moisture and softness in your hair.

6. Bring out the heavier deep conditioners i.e. masks, cholesterols etc. to help lock in hydration and strength.

7. Use the LCO/LOC method during your moisturizing and sealing sessions to preserve the moisture levels in your strands for longer periods of time.

That's wrap! xx

It's a long one, so lets get started!

BEST BRAND OF VITAMINS FOR HAIR GROWTH?

I wouldn't say there's a "specific brand" of vitamins that's best for hair growth, but taking a daily multi-vitamin that contains (or in addition to) the basic essentials below, is great for promoting healthy hair growth and increasing fullness:

Biotin 

Iron (especially if your are anemic or you have low ferritin levels)

Vitamin D

Vitamin C

Omega 3's

Zinc

It's important to have the above in your daily multivitamin; however, if the amounts are low, you may want to supplement to increase your nutrition levels. Don't forget protein is essential! Calcium and collagen are great additions, too.

IS THERE A PROBLEM IF I CHANGE FROM NO LYE TO A LYE RELAXER?

No problem at all! Many notice a positive difference right away after they switch. I've always been told it's better to go from No Lye to Lye verses Lye to No Lye. 

I HAVE CHRONIC DRY HAIR, ALL THE PRODUCTS JUST SITS ON TOP OF MY STRANDS. WHAT CAN HELP ME?

Seems like there could be some buildup on your strands. To start, do a clarifying shampoo (this will rid your hair of any product or build up inhibiting products from penetrating), follow up with a sulfate-free moisturizing shampoo, then do a moisture deep condition under a steamer or heat cap for 30-45mins. Do the LCO (Liquid, Cream, Oil) method 2-3x/week to lock in moisture. Try baggying your ends, in between wash days, to keep that moisture momentum going. 

HOW OFTEN SHOULD YOU DO PROTEIN TREATMENTS OR DOES THAT DEPEND?

It really depends on your strands. Some people find a rhythm where they do protein treatments bi-weekly or monthly and that works for them, while others wait much longer. If you are unsure, do the strand test to see what your hair is telling you:

Take a shed strand, tug it slightly on both ends. If the hair stretches and stretches and then snaps, chances are you need a dose of protein in your strands.

If the shed hair snaps and breaks easily, with a slight tug, you need more moisture in your regimen.

Check out this post for more details on Protein Deficiency:

Hair Breakage 101: Protein Deficiency

WHAT ARE SOME CHEAP PRODUCTS THAT WORK WELL FOR RELAXED HAIR?

Some affordable brands that work well for Relaxed Hair would be: Aussie, Herbal Essences, Creme of Nature, Shea Moisture, ORS Olive Oil, etc.

WHAT IS YOUR REGIMEN ONE WEEK BEFORE RELAXING YOUR HAIR?

Here is my regimen 1 week prior to relaxer day: 

After my wash day, I put my hair in a high or low bun, I moisturize and seal throughout the week but I'm very gentle with my hair and I DO NOT touch my scalp or apply any oils until the day before my relaxer touch up.

Low manipulation is key! I just leave my hair alone as much as possible.

HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT ADDING ESSENTIAL OILS TO CARRIER OILS FOR HAIR?

I love it! My favourite carrier oils are JBCO, Coconut oil, Avocado oil and Olive oil. My fave essential oils are Rosemary, Peppermint and Lavender!! They are all nourishing, stimulate blood flow and help to promote hair growth.

HOW DO I GROW MY EDGES BACK?

For me, the best thing for my edges has been Jamaican Black Castor Oil in combination with scalp massages. This has helped to promote growth and fullness. Try adding some essential oils to stimulate blood flow which also helps to promote hair growth. Also, refraining from tight hair styles, over processing your hairline during your relaxer touch up and ensuring that you cover your hair at night with a satin scarf and/or bonnet will help to protect your edges.

PLEASE RECOMMEND PROTEIN FOR RELAXED HAIR AND MOISTURIZING DEEP CONDITIONERS

Head over to my latest video where I share Moisture-based and Protein-based Deep Conditioners (based on ingredients) to incorporate into your hair regimen:

DO YOU ALWAYS GET A TRIM AT THE SALON? IF NO, HOW DO YOU TRIM YOUR ENDS YOURSELF?

Yes, I go to the salon for my trims. The reality is, I just don't trust myself to cut off enough. LOL. I do own a pair of sheers for small dustings, i.e. SSKs or split ends - but that's it.

WHY DOES RELAXED HAIR TURN BROWN AFTER SOME TIME?

It's linked to elevated pH levels in the strands. This is a characteristic of high porosity hair as well. I used to have a brownish tint to my hair when I first started my hair journey but overtime, and as my hair got healthier, my hair got darker and remained that way.

I HAVE TEXLAX HAIR. DOES YOUR REGIMEN STILL WORK FOR THIS KIND OF HAIR?

My regimen works best for me and my strands. I built my regimen off of my hair's needs. It's hard to say whether or not it will work for others - I guess just trial and error. You can always use my regimen as a guideline and incorporate what your hair needs.

WHY DO YOU APPLY PROTEIN TREATMENT ON DRY HAIR FIRST?

For better absorption. Think of your hair as a sponge? a sponge adsorbs liquids better when dry as opposed to sopping wet. Since I wash twice a week, my hair isn't dirty by the time I apply my protein to dry hair. However, there are many instances where I apply my protein treatments after I shampoo, it just depends on how my hair feels.

LYE OR NO LYE?

Lye!!

HOW DO YOU GROW YOUR NAPE HAIR?

Check out my post on 7 Ways to Grow Your Nape Area

DO YOU STILL WEAR PROTECTIVE STYLES (BRAIDS OR WIGS) TO STRETCH BETWEEN RELAXERS?

I do not wear braids as a protective style. I used to wear wigs back in the day - need to get back on that! Loved it.

ANY PRODUCTS YOU WOULD RECOMMEND FOR A BALD SPOT?

Please see your family physician for an assessment as a bald spot may imply internal health issues.

ANY TIPS FOR CROWN BREAKAGE/REPAIR?

1) Avoid tight styles in the crown region i.e. ponytails, buns, clips etc. and opt for loose buns, wigs, etc. Move your bun and ponytail. Don't keep them in the same area each time.

2) Keep your crown moisturized (if excessively dry - do the LOC/LCO method in this area) and  stimulated (using growth oils and scalp massages).

3) Apply product to this section first and separate from the rest of the hair *attention and love is needed*

4) Do not apply the Relaxer there first! Rotate the areas you apply your relaxer to avoid stress/strain on  this particular section.

5) Be consistent with your regimen, take your daily vitamins, and drink lots of water!

WHAT IS YOUR WASH ROUTINE THE WEEK AFTER A RELAXER? DO YOU INCLUDE PROTEIN?

Yes, I include protein in my routine.  I typically wear my hair straight for a few days and then I go right into my regimen - shampoo, protein, moisture DC, leave-in etc. I also do a bond building treatment a few wash days after a relaxer.

Check out my Post-Relaxer Bond Building Routine Here:

WHAT VITAMINS DO YOU TAKE?

Currently taking a Multi-Vitamin, Biotin, Vitamin D, Omega 3's and Vitamin C.

I LOVE SCURL BUT IT MAKES MY FLAT IRONED HAIR FRIZZY. CAN YOU MOISTURIZE STRAIGHT HAIR AND KEEP IT SLEEK?

S-Curl should not be used on flat ironed hair - it will revert. I like to use either a serum or hair lotion/milk on my ends for moisture when my hair is straight. The lotion consistency doesn't revert my ends keeping it sleek and hydrated.

THOUGHTS ON ORS MAX MOISTURE LINE? HAVE YOU TRIED IT?

Haven't seen it at my local Beauty Supply Store so I haven't had the chance to try it out.

HEY SIS! IN YOUR RELAXER DAY VIDEO WHY DID YOU TIME FOR 25 MINS INSTEAD OF 15 MINS (TIME ON THE JAR)?

That's the processing time for my texture - it works! I don't have fine strands plus I stretch my relaxers, so I need to extend my processing time based on those factors. Anything less, I'll end up with under-processed roots.

WHATS YOUR FAVOURITE PROTEIN TREATMENT?

Aphogee 2 Minute Reconstructor and ORS Replenishing Conditioner!! Love them dearly.

WHAT DO YOU CHELATE WITH POST SWIMMING?

ORS Creamy Aloe Shampoo - this serves as a chelating, clarifying and neutralizing shampoo.

PRODUCTS FOR LOW POROSITY HAIR (WASH DAY, TREATMENT ETC.)

Anything that has zero/low protein. Don't get me wrong, low porosity hair needs protein, just in smaller/less frequent doses.

Check out my recent video on How to Read Product Ingredients. This video will teach you how to read product ingredient labels so that you know how to select Moisture-based or Protein-based products and as a bonus, you'll get a product suggestion list of Moisture Based Deep Conditioners, Leave-ins and Moisturizers.  

As for Shampoo's, here are a few great ones:

Creme of Nature Argan Oil Sulfate Free Shampoo

TGIN Moisture Rich Shampoo

Keracare Hydrating and Detangling Shampoo

Shea Moisture Manuka Honey Intensive Hydration Shampoo

WHAT KIND OF PROTECTIVE STYLE DO YOU USE FOR STRETCHING RELAXER TIME? 

Typically, buns. 

I switch it up and move my bun around so that it's not always in the same spot. In between buns, I wear ponytails, braid outs etc. Honestly thinking about grabbing a wig as the colder weather approaches! We'll see *wink*.

That's it, sis! Until next time..

Xoxo

Happy Monday, sis!

Great news.

Q&A is back in session and it's a good one. As always, I like to host Instagram Hair Care Question and Answer sessions each month and the questions that I don't get a chance to answer on IG, I answer here on the blog. It's something I always look forward to, so let's get to it!

DO YOU MOISTURIZE AND SEAL EVERY NIGHT OR EVERY OTHER NIGHT?

Typically, I moisturize and seal every other day. But if my hair feels like it needs a slight moisture boost, I will moisturize. Always listen to your hair. If it needs moisture, moisturize it. 

HOW DO YOU KEEP YOUR ENDS MOISTURIZED? MINE SEEM TO NEED LOC DAY/NIGHT?

I moisturize using my water-based moisturizer and oil to seal. Perhaps you need to change your method (instead of LOC, try LCO) or the products you are using. I find that doing the LCO method (Liquid, Creme, Oil) instead of LOC locks in MUCH more moisture and you won't feel the need to moisturize twice daily. If you're still noticing extreme dryness, try clarifying your hair and ends using a clarifying shampoo (2x lather), use a sulfate-free shampoo (1x lather), then follow up with a moisturizing deep conditioner (zero protein) and see if that helps to restore moisture. Ensure that you are using quality deep conditioners to help restore hydration into your strands.

ANY SUGGESTIONS FOR SWIMMER'S SHAMPOO OR SHAMPOO WITH EDTA? NEVER HEARD BEFORE NOW.

Sally Beauty and Amazon.com carries ION Swimmer's Shampoo which is great for removing chlorine build up and mineral deposits off of the hair. It's perfect for pool or beach days.

Last month, on my Instagram Stories, I hosted a Q&A and as usual you guys SHOWED OUT with an abundance of hair related questions. Certainly, I wasn't able to answer every question, at that time. 

So per my usual Q&A routine, I take up the remaining most common questions, here on my blog, to help you guys out. 

I love being able to answer your hair questions...so lets get right into it!

CAN YOU RECOMMEND SOME NON PROTEIN CONDITIONERS?

Protein-free conditioners are a MUST! Here are a few of my favourites :

1. TGIN Moisture Miracle Mask 

2. Keracare Humecto Creme Conditioner 

3. Shea Moisture Manuka Honey Mafura Oil Masque 

4. Shea Moisture Superfruit Complex 10 in 1

5. As I Am Hydration Elation

HOW OFTEN SHOULD YOU RELAX YOUR HAIR?

I think no sooner than 10 weeks is perfect. I love to stretch my relaxers anywhere from 10-12 weeks. Nothing too drastic yet effective enough to prevent relaxer overlap.

MY HAIR BREAKS A LOT AND I'VE TRIED EVERYTHING AND WHEN I COMB A LOT COMES OUT. HELP!

Sorry to hear this! It could be a number of variables that's causing your breakage i.e. your products, over manipulation, over-processed hair etc. 

For starters, it's best to do a strand test to determine what your hair may be lacking. Take a shed or broken strand of hair and slightly tug on the ends of the strand. If it breaks easily without much stretch, chances are, your hair is moisture deficient. If you tug your strand and it begins to stretch, stretch and stretch before breaking, your hair is protein deficient. Once you 'diagnose' the deficiency in your hair, clarify your hair using a clarifying shampoo to get rid of any product build up. This will reset the hair to accept and absorb product efficiently. Next, proceed with the necessary treatment for your hair i.e. moisture or protein. Continue to assess your hair and make any adjustments to your regimen as you see fit.

Be sure to check out these links to help you further:

Hair Breakage 101 - Moisture Deficiency in Hair - Click Here!

Hair Breakage 101 - Protein Deficiency in Hair - Click Here!

WHAT DO YOU DO AFTER RELAXER DAY? LIKE THAT DAY AND WEEK? WHAT DOES THAT ROUTINE LOOK LIKE?

After a relaxer, I typically flat iron my hair and proceed to trim my ends at the salon. I then rock my straight style for approximately 5-7 days. I preserve it by wrapping it at night and lightly moisturizing it. Once my hair starts to feel weighed down (or I'm just over it), I go back into my usual wash day routine by doing a protein prepoo, shampoo, deep condition, and air dry or I do my Olaplex routine.

If you haven't already, check out my Post Relaxer Olaplex Routine

SCALP OILS?

Lately, I've been loving Coconut oil mixed with Rosemary, Lavender and Peppermint essential oils. I also enjoy using JBCO and Atarah Hair Treatment Oil on my scalp after wash day.

HOW CAN I IMPROVE THE THICKNESS OF MY HAIR?

If you naturally have fine/thin hair, it's not possible to increase the thickness of your strands - unfortunately. However, if you have over processed hair/ends due to the misuse of chemical services, it's definitely possible to return the thickness and health back in to your strands overtime.

Be sure to check out this post on 7 Ways To Thicken Relaxed Hair. Swear by it!

HAVE YOU EVER TRIED RICE OR ONION WATER? IF YOU HAVE WHAT ARE THE BENEFITS OF IT THAT YOU HAVE NOTICED?

I tried rice water years ago, wasn't really impressed by it. It made my hair hard and stringy. Never, tried onion water. Not really into the gimmicks, to be honest.

CAN THE ORS HAIR MAYONNAISE BE USED JUST LIKE THE APHOGEE KERATIN 2 MIN RECONSTRUCTOR?

Yes. They are both protein based conditioners to help repair the hair. However, the protein content in the Hair Mayo is slightly stronger as the Hydrolyzed Protein is higher up in the ingredient list as opposed to the Aphogee 2 Minute Reconstructor.

HOW LONG DO YOU WEAR YOUR PROTECTIVE STYLES?

I never sleep in protective styles i.e. braided ponytails, buns etc. I don't wear them for extended periods of time. If I choose to wear a protective style, I take them down nightly.

WHAT CAN I USE TO GROW MY HAIRLINE?

You can try massaging any one of these oils into your hairline daily: Jamaican Black Castor Oil, Atarah Hair Treatment or a carrier oil mixed with Rosemary, Peppermint and Lavender essential oils.  These oils really help to stimulate blood flow in the scalp and promote hair growth. 

Also, if you relax your hair, try relaxing your hairline last or every other relaxer to give it a break. Refrain from tight hairstyles and protect your hair at night with a satin scarf and/or bonnet.

WHAT DO YOU USE TO PREPOO AND FOR HOW LONG?

I use Aphogee 2 Minute Reconstructor to prepoo mixed with Coconut Oil. I leave it on for 15-20 minutes.

DO YOU DEEP CONDITION/STEAM WHEN YOU CO-WASH AS WELL?

If I have time, yes. Otherwise, I'll skip the steaming/deep conditioning phase and just co-wash.

IS IT SAFE TO TAKE HAIR VITAMINS WHEN TRYING TO CONCEIVE? AND WHICH WILL YOU RECOMMEND?

I think a prenatal vitamin is more than sufficient plus it has all the essential vitamins and minerals for hair growth! Too, a daily prenatal vitamin is vital prior to conception.

CAN I DEEP CONDITION EVERY TWO WEEKS INSTEAD OF WEEKLY?

For sure. Do what's best for you, your hair and your schedule!

AMAZON SUPPLIER FOR KERACARE HUMECTO CONDIITIONER?

You bet - Click Here! 

HOW DO YOU TREAT YOUR HAIR A DAY AFTER RELAXING? ANY MOISTURIZER OR JUST OIL?

My hair is in a flat ironed style after a relaxer. I don't moisturize until approximately day 2/3. I use an oil based moisturizer to preserve the sleekness.

HOW LONG DID IT TAKE UNTIL YOUR HAIR FINALLY CAUGHT ON THE ROUTINE?

About 3-4 months into my journey, my hair started to take off and respond positively to the products and routine I was using. 

WHAT IS THE BEST MOISTURIZER AND LEAVE-IN CONDITOINER FOR RELAXED HAIR?

It's hard to say because the answer will be very subjective - no matter who you ask.

For me, I love and use As I Am So Much Moisture Hair Lotion or Scurl No Drip Activator to moisturize. I also like to use the moisturizers mentioned above as leave-ins sometimes. But a couple other amazing leave-in conditioners are Taliah Waajid Protective Mist Leave-in and Shea Moisture Sugarcane Extract & Meadowfoam Seed Silicone Free Leave-in. A few other moisturizers, that many relaxed ladies love, are ORS Hair Lotion, TGIN Daily Moisturizer, and Mielle Organics Hair Milk.

DO YOU USE A HEAT PROTECTANT BEFORE STRAIGHTENING YOUR HAIR?

Always - without a doubt!

AFTER PUTTING IN MY DEEP CONDITIONER, MY ENDS STILL FEEL DRY? DO YOU KNOW WHY IS THAT?

It varies. It could be the deep conditioner that you're using, perhaps it's filled with a lot of protein and you're not balancing it with moisture or it's not moisturizing enough or rather you have a lot of buildup and you need to clarify your hair. Also, you may be due for a trim, definitely look into that!

THE MORE I STRETCH THE MORE MY NEW GROWTH GETS TANGLED UP DURING WASH DAY. WHATS THE BEST WAY TO WASH?

This is common!  It's so vital to wash and massage your roots gently yet strategically when stretching your relaxer. For a 'fool-proof' method, thoroughly detangle your hair prior to shampooing and then put your hair in 6-8 plaits to prevent the roots of your hair from matting while shampooing. The shampoo will go directly on your scalp and run down the length of your hair for adequate cleansing. It works!

WHAT HAIR STEAMER THAT IS NOT TOO EXPENSIVE CAN YOU RECOMMEND?

Try the Kingdomcares Hair Steamer or the Vicarko Hair Steamer Heat Cap. Both are effective and affordable!

IS SCURL ONLY FOR THE NEW GROWTH?

Not at all. I love and use it for moisturizing my hair and ends. It's a gem!

WHICH PROTEIN TREATMENT BASED PRODUCTS WOULD YOU RECOMMEND AS AN ALTERNATIVE FOR APHOGEE?

Aphogee 2 Minute Reconstructor is amazing! However, there are a few alternatives:

1. ION Effective Care Treatment

2. ION Reconstructor

3. Mielle Organics Babassu Oil Mint Deep Conditioner 

4. Creme of Nature Argan Oil Intensive Conditioning Treatment (moisture/protein balanced)

5. ORS Olive Oil Replenishing Conditioner (moisture/protein balanced)

WILL YOU BE MAINTAINING THE HAIR LENGTH YOU ARE NOW OR GROW IT OUT?

It's funny because I've been getting this question a lot lately. I'm loving my new length!! It's such a breeze and easy to manage, especially on wash days. Right now, my plan is to maintain it for a long as I can - going into Summer. Most likely, I will keep this length until Fall. We shall see *wink*

So that was pretty fun! Of course, if I missed your question, please re-submit it during the next Q&A. I will be hosting an upcoming Q&A session for the month of May on my Instagram Stories - stay tuned!

Xoxo.